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Anxious Attachment Style Coaching

Struggling with an anxious attachment style in dating and relationships? This specialist coaching package delivers three, one-hour sessions with a qualified attachment coach—helping you break free from anxiety-driven patterns, communicate confidently, and enjoy secure, healthy relationships. Choose confidential video coaching or face-to-face meetings, tailored to your preference and needs.

How We Teach You to Handle Anxious Attachment Style

Comprehensive Attachment Assessment
Each program begins with an in-depth assessment to understand your unique anxious attachment triggers, relational history, and dating patterns. We use professional self-report tools and personal narrative mapping to give you deep insight and clarity.

Attachment Education and Mindset Shift
You will learn the psychology of anxious attachment style—why it forms, its signature behaviours (like hypervigilance, people-pleasing, or fear of abandonment), and the hidden strengths beneath the anxiety. Emphasis is placed on cultivating a growth mindset, rooted in self-compassion, curiosity, and non-judgement.

Emotional Awareness and Self-Soothing Techniques
Practical exercises focus on building self-awareness of your emotional triggers, bodily cues, and anxious thought patterns. Learn evidence-based self-soothing skills such as mindfulness, breathwork, and body-based (somatic) techniques to calm your nervous system when anxiety spikes in dating or relationships.

Compassionate Communication Training
Master secure, clear, and non-clingy ways to express needs and boundaries—without overwhelming partners. This includes role-play, scripts, and feedback to help you speak up authentically, handle unresponsiveness, and reduce protest behaviours that can sabotage intimacy.

Boundary Setting and Resilience Building
You’ll develop assertive boundary-setting skills while learning to tolerate healthy space and the normal ups and downs of modern dating. We help you recognise and reroute patterns like over-texting, jealousy, or second guessing, so you break cycles of self-sabotage and foster secure connections.

Attachment-Focused Homework and Real-Time Support
Every session comes with custom exercises—journaling, meditations, scenario rehearsals, and “in-the-moment” checklists—to reinforce lasting change outside the coaching hour. Feedback and support are available between sessions to guide you through sticky situations as they arise.

Rewiring for Secure Attachment
You’ll learn to reframe anxious thoughts, practice emotional regulation in real time, and gradually build emotional safety in relationships. Celebrate progress, however small, and get the support needed to integrate these new habits as your “new normal.”

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) – Anxious Attachment Style Coaching

1. What is anxious attachment style, and what does it look like?
   Anxious attachment style features a preoccupation with relationship security, fear of abandonment, and anxiety-driven behaviours such as clinginess, over-analyzing, or seeking constant reassurance.
2. How can coaching help me manage anxious attachment without destroying relationships?
   Coaching teaches you to become aware of triggers, communicate confidently, regulate emotions, and build resilience—transforming anxious behaviours into secure connection strategies that support, not sabotage, relationships.
3. Are sessions conducted online or face-to-face?
   You can choose private video coaching or in-person meetings to fit your needs and comfort.
4. What’s included in the coaching sessions?
   Attachment assessment, education, emotional regulation tools, communication strategies, boundary-setting, real-time guidance, and custom “homework” for ongoing progress.
5. How soon will I notice change?
   Most clients see an improvement in managing anxiety and relationship confidence within a few weeks of applying these skills.
6. Can anxious attachment be healed?
   Yes—with practice and the right support, it is possible to move toward secure attachment and enjoy happier, more stable relationships.

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