1. When your sex life feels repetitive or unsatisfying, you usually:

Fantasise about others Assume this is normal Feel emotionally distant Seek attention elsewhere

2. New sexual experiences or partners feel:

Very important to feeling alive Tempting but risky Less important than emotional connection Necessary to feel desired

3. When you feel emotionally neglected, you:

Withdraw Seek validation elsewhere Try to talk it through Feel restless

4. How clear are your personal rules around fidelity?

Very clear — cheating is never okay Clear, but exceptions feel justified Vague — depends on the situation I don’t think about rules much

5. Alcohol or high-stress environments make you:

More impulsive More flirtatious More emotionally open No real difference

6. Being desired by others makes you feel:

Powerful and validated Temporarily better about yourself Grounded and secure Mostly indifferent

7. When attraction appears unexpectedly, you tend to:

Act before thinking Pull back intentionally Feel excited and tempted Rationalise it as harmless

8. In relationships, you value most:

Passion and excitement Emotional closeness Stability Freedom and independence

9. How do you respond to boredom?

Seek stimulation Look externally Communicate needs Tolerate it

10. Past cheating (if any) felt driven by:

Opportunity and impulse Feeling unappreciated Sexual frustration Fear of closeness

11. When conflict arises, you:

Avoid it Escalate emotionally Seek relief elsewhere Try to resolve it

12. Commitment feels:

Comforting Restricting Conditional Anxiety-provoking

13. Your impulse control under temptation is:

Weak Inconsistent Strong Situation-dependent

14. Your self-worth depends most on:

External validation Personal values Relationship security Internal confidence

15. Which feels most true?

I cheat when needs go unmet I cheat when opportunity appears I cheat when I feel invisible I don’t fully understand why yet