Couples Therapy Compatibility Test By Nia Williams, Registered Relationship Therapist & Certified Life Coach – Miss Date Doctor This scientifically structured compatibility test assesses six core dimensions of relationship health: emotional connection, communication, values, conflict resolution, intimacy, and trust. Answer the 12 questions honestly and receive an instant compatibility score with personalised feedback. 1. When you share something deeply personal, how does your partner usually respond? A) With empathy and active listening B) They listen, but sometimes change the subject C) They acknowledge but don’t always understand D) They dismiss or minimise my feelings 2. How often do you and your partner have meaningful conversations? A) Daily, we make time to connect B) A few times a week C) Occasionally, when necessary D) Rarely, conversations are superficial 3. How do you and your partner usually resolve disagreements? A) Calmly, with respect and compromise B) Sometimes calmly, sometimes with tension C) Often escalates, resolution is partial D) Conflicts are frequent and unresolved 4. Do you and your partner share similar long-term goals (family, career, lifestyle)? A) Yes, we are aligned in most areas B) We share some, but differ in others C) We rarely discuss long-term goals D) Our goals are very different 5. How satisfied are you with the intimacy in your relationship? A) Very satisfied B) Mostly satisfied C) Occasionally dissatisfied D) Very dissatisfied 6. How much do you trust your partner? A) Completely B) Mostly C) Somewhat D) Very little 7. How do you handle finances as a couple? A) Openly discussed and managed together B) Some shared planning, some separate C) Rarely discussed, managed individually D) Causes frequent tension and secrecy 8. Do you and your partner respect each other’s independence? A) Yes, fully supportive of each other B) Mostly, with some disagreements C) Sometimes, but often controlling D) No, independence is not respected 9. How well do you and your partner show appreciation for one another? A) Frequently and sincerely B) Occasionally C) Rarely D) Almost never 10. How do you and your partner manage stress as a couple? A) Support each other consistently B) Try to support, but sometimes struggle C) Often cope individually, not together D) Stress usually causes conflict 11. How would you describe your overall communication style as a couple? A) Open, honest, and respectful B) Generally good, with occasional breakdowns C) Inconsistent and sometimes unclear D) Poor, often leads to misunderstandings 12. Do you and your partner make time for shared activities? A) Regularly, it’s a priority B) Occasionally, when schedules allow C) Rarely, we are often too busy D) Almost never See My Results
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