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Comprehensive 60-question digital assessment of emotional intelligence and relationship skills
Science-backed tool integrating Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On EQ-i, and attachment theory
Personalized report diagnosing emotional regulation, attachment style, conflict resolution, and communication
Identifies behavioral patterns and emotional blind spots sabotaging relationships
Provides clear indicators for coaching, therapy, or self-improvement interventions
Optional expert 1:1 review session for deep-dive analysis and personalized guidance
Bonus discount on coaching sessions for effective relationship transformation
Designed for singles seeking radical self-awareness and improved emotional connections
Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Skills Scientific Test Diagnostic (EIRSD™) | Science-backed, comprehensive emotional intelligence and relationship skills self-assessment
Unlock the hidden emotional and behavioural patterns that may be sabotaging your love life with the Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Scientific Test Skills Diagnostic (EIRSD™), a signature, scientifically developed self-assessment by Miss Date Doctor. Designed for individuals who experience repeating relationship challenges, difficulty communicating needs, or heightened emotional reactivity, this diagnostic tool uses evidence-based psychological frameworks to provide deep insight into your emotional intelligence (EQ), attachment style, conflict resolution approach, and communication habits.
Grounded in leading theories such as Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On’s EQ-i, reflective functioning, and attachment psychology, the EIRSD™ goes beyond a simple personality test to deliver a nuanced, clear picture of your relationship strengths and areas for growth. Whether you struggle with setting boundaries, managing emotional intensity, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this diagnostic facilitates radical self-awareness—a vital first step toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
What You’ll Discover:
How effectively you identify, regulate, and manage your emotions
Your dominant attachment style’s impact on trust, vulnerability, and closeness
Your default conflict resolution style: avoidance, escalation, or constructive engagement
Whether you create or sabotage boundaries in relationships
Your levels of empathy and communication proficiency
Emotional “red flags” that may push away healthy partners
Who This Is For:
Individuals feeling misunderstood or reactive in relationships
Those cycling through unhealthy dating patterns or attracting unavailable partners
High-achieving professionals excelling at work but struggling emotionally in love
Anyone committed to deepening emotional self-awareness and fostering genuine connection
Why It Works: The EIRSD™ combines Likert-scale questions, behavioral scenarios, and self-reflection prompts with interpersonal style comparisons—offering a scientifically valid, personalized profile. Unlike generic quizzes, it translates your results into actionable insights that highlight when coaching, therapy, or tailored interventions may benefit your relationship journey.
What You Get:
A 60-question, self-guided digital assessment completed at your own pace
Detailed, personalized scoring breakdown by emotional intelligence and relational skill domains
Downloadable report with comprehensive interpretation and practical guidance
Clear indicators suggesting coaching or therapy paths to enhance your emotional and relational skills
Optional: 1-on-1 review session with an expert Miss Date Doctor coach for deeper exploration of your results
Bonus coaching session discount upon completing the test to kickstart your relationship growth
Professional Guidance: Love thrives on emotional maturity, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The EIRSD™ reveals where you excel and flags unconscious behaviours that might be blocking intimacy—empowering you to transform your love life from the inside out.
One 1-hour class teaching the four essential components of mental fitness
Practical strategies for self-acceptance, self-esteem, resilience, and emotion management
Techniques to build confidence and reduce anxiety
Tools to identify and eliminate cognitive distortions and self-sabotage
Introspection and personality exploration for increased self-awareness
Support addressing challenging behavioral patterns and relationship issues
Evidence-based approach promoting mental health and emotional well-being
Engaging, focused session delivered by experienced mental fitness professionals
Three 1-hour one-to-one counselling sessions with experienced professionals
Introspection tests and behavioural pattern analysis
CBT-based exercises promoting lasting mindset shifts
Person-centred coaching focused on self-acceptance and personal growth
Identification of repetitive cycles and triggers for informed change
Support addressing past issues and understanding intimacy needs
Safe, confidential space designed to empower and heal
Tailored therapeutic approach for meaningful behavioural transformation
One expert conflict resolution coaching session (£170)
Tailored advice for managing serious arguments and volatile relationships
Practical tools to calm escalations and communicate respectfully
Ethical guidance to promote fairness and mutual understanding
Strategies to break recurring conflict cycles and foster peace
Support for singles and couples seeking healthier relationship dynamics
Confidential, professional, and empathetic coaching environment
Improve emotional regulation and build lasting respect and connection
Three one-hour individual therapy sessions focused on anxiety relief
Expert assessment of anxiety triggers and underlying causes
Personalized coping strategies for managing anxiety symptoms
Techniques to identify and change negative thought patterns
Emotional regulation skills tailored to anxiety management
Exposure therapy support to face fears gradually (if appropriate)
Mindfulness practices to enhance present-moment calm and reduce worry
Goal setting to build resilience and track progress toward wellbeing
Three 1-hour sessions with skilled schema therapy experts
Exploration and identification of deep-seated emotional patterns and schemas
Combination of cognitive-behavioral and psychodynamic therapy techniques
Personalized strategies for modifying unhelpful beliefs and behaviors
Development of healthier coping and interpersonal skills
Enhanced self-awareness and emotional regulation tools
Supportive, confidential environment for safe healing
Focus on long-term emotional resilience and personal growth
Comprehensive online narcissistic personality disorder screening test
Uses DSM-5-TR clinical criteria and validated NPI-16 inventory
Evaluates narcissistic traits, empathy levels, and relationship impact
Confidential, trauma-aware, and non-shaming self-assessment
Detailed results with scientific interpretation guide included
Optional 1:1 coaching session for personalized feedback and strategies
Psychoeducational resources on narcissism, codependency, and healing
Designed for individuals, professionals, and those committed to self-awareness
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced Solution-Focused Brief Therapy specialists
Collaborative process identifying goals and customized solutions
Strengths-based approach leveraging your existing resources
Future-oriented, action-driven therapy for efficient progress
Practical tools for empowerment and resilience building
Confidential, supportive environment for focused therapeutic work
Emphasis on measurable outcomes and personal growth
Positive, client-led approach fostering lasting transformation
Three 1-hour psychotherapy sessions with experienced clinicians in London
Comprehensive personalized assessment and tailored therapeutic approaches
Supportive, confidential environment fostering emotional safety and trust
Evidence-based techniques to address emotional and psychological challenges
Tools to develop coping strategies and enhance emotional regulation
Focus on increasing self-awareness and personal insight
Flexible scheduling to fit your busy lifestyle
Compassionate, individualized care emphasizing long-term mental health improvement
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced trauma-informed therapists
Safe, confidential environment for exploring trauma and emotional healing
Evidence-based trauma processing to gently reduce emotional intensity
Empowerment and resilience-building techniques to reclaim your strength
Practical coping strategies for managing trauma triggers and stress
Support in rebuilding self-esteem and fostering self-compassion
Mindfulness and grounding exercises for present-moment awareness
Guidance to improve relationships by understanding trauma’s impact
Three 1-hour sessions with expert therapists specializing in DBT
Mindfulness skills to enhance awareness and acceptance of the present moment
Distress tolerance techniques for managing crises without worsening them
Emotion regulation strategies tailored to reduce mood instability
Interpersonal effectiveness training for assertive communication and relationship improvement
Personalized cognitive-behavioural strategies to change negative patterns
Support in decreasing self-harm and impulsive behaviours
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering trust and healing
Three 1-hour counselling sessions at convenient local office locations
Techniques to enhance communication and foster emotional understanding
Effective conflict resolution strategies to promote relationship harmony
Trust rebuilding exercises to cultivate a stronger, secure bond
Guidance for deepening intimacy and enhancing emotional connection
Collaborative goal setting and future planning tailored to your partnership
Confidential, supportive environment prioritizing your privacy
Personalized coaching adapted to the unique needs of your relationship
Three 1-hour private occupational therapy sessions with experienced London therapists
Comprehensive individualized assessments to tailor your therapy plan
Customized treatment focusing on enhancing functional abilities and independence
One-on-one sessions providing dedicated, personalized care
Continuous progress monitoring and adaptive intervention strategies
Flexible scheduling to accommodate busy lifestyles
Collaborative approach empowering your active role in therapy
Confidential sessions ensuring comfort, privacy, and trust
Private counselling sessions focused on breakup recovery and trauma healing
Expert guidance to manage betrayal trauma and depression symptoms
Strategies to restore confidence and foster positive mindset shifts
Safe, confidential, and judgment-free space for emotional healing
Tools to build emotional resilience and cope with loss effectively
Support for processing grief and overcoming relationship setbacks
Qualified counsellors specialized in relationship and breakup trauma
Empowering clients to move forward with strength and renewed hope
Three 1-hour counselling sessions with experienced therapists specializing in life adjustments
Deep understanding of the emotional effects of major life transitions
Personalized coping techniques to manage stress and anxiety effectively
Confidential, empathetic environment for open emotional exploration
Guidance to build and utilize supportive personal networks
Support balancing change while maintaining life stability
Emphasis on resilience-building and compassionate self-care
Assistance in reframing transitions as opportunities for growth and new experiences
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with specialists in exposure therapy
Individualized assessment to target specific fears and avoidance behaviours
Gradual exposure exercises designed for safe, effective anxiety management
Coping strategies to handle emotional and physical anxiety responses
Therapist guidance to reduce avoidance and build confidence
Monitoring and adjustment of therapy based on your progress
Supportive, confidential environment ensuring emotional safety
Tools to maintain and continue progress beyond therapy sessions
Evidence-based couples workshop to transform communication
Led by a qualified and experienced relationship coach
Practical tools for building trust and mutual understanding
Techniques to strengthen emotional intelligence (EQ)
Training on improving tone, delivery, and social skills
Learn to talk and listen more effectively
Safe, supportive setting for honest partner interaction
Personalized feedback and actionable strategies for lasting results
Professional review of extensive conversation records including texts, WhatsApp, emails, and documents
Identification of emotional undertones and communication patterns
Tailored advice to improve what you say and how you engage
Support for enhancing emotional dialogue and interpersonal understanding
Bespoke pricing based on the volume of conversation analysis needed
Confidential and empathetic approach to your personal communications
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced couples therapists specializing in relationship issues
Improvement of communication skills for deeper emotional understanding
Proven conflict resolution strategies to manage disputes constructively
Trusted guidance to rebuild and strengthen emotional trust in your partnership
Support to increase emotional intimacy and affection between partners
Addressing and resolving past issues impacting present relationship dynamics
Tools to identify and change negative behavioural and communication patterns
Assistance in aligning shared goals for a more unified future as a couple
Three personalized 1-hour trauma-informed therapy sessions
Safe, supportive, and confidential environment for healing
Techniques to process and integrate traumatic memories healthily
Emotional regulation tools for managing trauma-related stress
Practical coping strategies to handle triggers and anxiety
Support rebuilding trust, safety, and emotional security
Focus on fostering resilience and post-traumatic personal growth
Experienced therapists specializing in trauma recovery and care
One confidential pre-marital counselling session for couples
Professional guidance on communication and conflict resolution
In-depth discussions on finances and shared expectations
Exploration of values, goals, and commitment principles
Tools to strengthen emotional intimacy and mutual understanding
Support for couples of all faiths and cultural backgrounds
Strategies to prepare for a resilient, lasting partnership
Expert advice to navigate common pre-marriage challenges
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