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Comprehensive 60-question digital assessment of emotional intelligence and relationship skills
Science-backed tool integrating Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On EQ-i, and attachment theory
Personalized report diagnosing emotional regulation, attachment style, conflict resolution, and communication
Identifies behavioral patterns and emotional blind spots sabotaging relationships
Provides clear indicators for coaching, therapy, or self-improvement interventions
Optional expert 1:1 review session for deep-dive analysis and personalized guidance
Bonus discount on coaching sessions for effective relationship transformation
Designed for singles seeking radical self-awareness and improved emotional connections
Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Skills Scientific Test Diagnostic (EIRSD™) | Science-backed, comprehensive emotional intelligence and relationship skills self-assessment
Unlock the hidden emotional and behavioural patterns that may be sabotaging your love life with the Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Scientific Test Skills Diagnostic (EIRSD™), a signature, scientifically developed self-assessment by Miss Date Doctor. Designed for individuals who experience repeating relationship challenges, difficulty communicating needs, or heightened emotional reactivity, this diagnostic tool uses evidence-based psychological frameworks to provide deep insight into your emotional intelligence (EQ), attachment style, conflict resolution approach, and communication habits.
Grounded in leading theories such as Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On’s EQ-i, reflective functioning, and attachment psychology, the EIRSD™ goes beyond a simple personality test to deliver a nuanced, clear picture of your relationship strengths and areas for growth. Whether you struggle with setting boundaries, managing emotional intensity, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this diagnostic facilitates radical self-awareness—a vital first step toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
What You’ll Discover:
How effectively you identify, regulate, and manage your emotions
Your dominant attachment style’s impact on trust, vulnerability, and closeness
Your default conflict resolution style: avoidance, escalation, or constructive engagement
Whether you create or sabotage boundaries in relationships
Your levels of empathy and communication proficiency
Emotional “red flags” that may push away healthy partners
Who This Is For:
Individuals feeling misunderstood or reactive in relationships
Those cycling through unhealthy dating patterns or attracting unavailable partners
High-achieving professionals excelling at work but struggling emotionally in love
Anyone committed to deepening emotional self-awareness and fostering genuine connection
Why It Works: The EIRSD™ combines Likert-scale questions, behavioral scenarios, and self-reflection prompts with interpersonal style comparisons—offering a scientifically valid, personalized profile. Unlike generic quizzes, it translates your results into actionable insights that highlight when coaching, therapy, or tailored interventions may benefit your relationship journey.
What You Get:
A 60-question, self-guided digital assessment completed at your own pace
Detailed, personalized scoring breakdown by emotional intelligence and relational skill domains
Downloadable report with comprehensive interpretation and practical guidance
Clear indicators suggesting coaching or therapy paths to enhance your emotional and relational skills
Optional: 1-on-1 review session with an expert Miss Date Doctor coach for deeper exploration of your results
Bonus coaching session discount upon completing the test to kickstart your relationship growth
Professional Guidance: Love thrives on emotional maturity, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The EIRSD™ reveals where you excel and flags unconscious behaviours that might be blocking intimacy—empowering you to transform your love life from the inside out.
Three 1-hour individual CBT sessions with experienced therapists
Evidence-based cognitive restructuring and behavioral activation techniques
Support for anxiety, depression, PTSD, aggression, and alcohol misuse
Practical coping skills to manage thoughts, emotions, and insomnia
Help breaking negative cycles and promoting psychological resilience
Confidential, supportive therapy environment focused on lasting change
Personalized treatment tailored to your unique mental health needs
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced therapists employing integrative, evidence-based approaches
Comprehensive assessment tailored to your unique therapeutic needs
Personalized treatment plans combining CBT, Psychodynamic, Mindfulness, and other modalities
Flexible, adaptive therapy evolving with your progress and changing goals
Holistic focus addressing emotional, psychological, and physical well-being
Targeted interventions for anxiety, relationships, self-esteem, and more
Client empowerment through collaborative goal setting and active participation
Continuous reassessment ensuring effective, lasting therapeutic outcomes
Three 1-hour sessions with therapists specializing in retroactive jealousy and relationship counseling
Deep insights into the emotional impact and root causes of retroactive jealousy
Evidence-based coping strategies to manage anxiety and intrusive thoughts
Support for building self-confidence and feeling secure in your relationship
Communication guidance to improve emotional connection with your partner
Trust rebuilding techniques to address jealousy’s underlying issues
Help processing and letting go of obsessive past-focused thoughts
Focus on cultivating a positive mindset and emotional intimacy for relationship growth
Three personalized 1-hour trauma-informed therapy sessions
Safe, supportive, and confidential environment for healing
Techniques to process and integrate traumatic memories healthily
Emotional regulation tools for managing trauma-related stress
Practical coping strategies to handle triggers and anxiety
Support rebuilding trust, safety, and emotional security
Focus on fostering resilience and post-traumatic personal growth
Experienced therapists specializing in trauma recovery and care
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced intimacy specialists
Practical sensate focus exercises to enhance emotional and physical connection
Communication coaching to foster honest and empathetic dialogue
Mindfulness techniques promoting present-moment intimacy awareness
Support navigating relationship dynamics and intimacy obstacles
Tools for creating a satisfying and connected partnership
Confidential, supportive coaching environment tailored to your unique needs
One 1-hour class teaching the four essential components of mental fitness
Practical strategies for self-acceptance, self-esteem, resilience, and emotion management
Techniques to build confidence and reduce anxiety
Tools to identify and eliminate cognitive distortions and self-sabotage
Introspection and personality exploration for increased self-awareness
Support addressing challenging behavioral patterns and relationship issues
Evidence-based approach promoting mental health and emotional well-being
Engaging, focused session delivered by experienced mental fitness professionals
Four weekly 1-hour coaching sessions focused on personal growth and relationship improvement
Two 30-minute interviews with ex-partners conducted with their consent
In-depth assessment of past relationship issues and negative patterns
Professional coaching tailored to enhance self-understanding and communication
Confidential, compassionate support fostering honest reflection and positive change
Structured programme promoting sustained insight and relational skill development
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced Solution-Focused Brief Therapy specialists
Collaborative process identifying goals and customized solutions
Strengths-based approach leveraging your existing resources
Future-oriented, action-driven therapy for efficient progress
Practical tools for empowerment and resilience building
Confidential, supportive environment for focused therapeutic work
Emphasis on measurable outcomes and personal growth
Positive, client-led approach fostering lasting transformation
Personalized 1-hour breathwork coaching session tailored to your needs
Expert guidance using diaphragmatic, box, coherent, and mindful breathing
Techniques to activate parasympathetic nervous system and reduce stress
Mental clarity exercises to interrupt overthinking and panic responses
Post-session resource pack to support home practice and ongoing calm
Flexible private sessions via secure video call or in-person availability
Proven benefits: improved sleep, emotional regulation, and physical health
Suitable for all experience levels, backgrounds, and genders
Three 1-hour counselling sessions at convenient local office locations
Techniques to enhance communication and foster emotional understanding
Effective conflict resolution strategies to promote relationship harmony
Trust rebuilding exercises to cultivate a stronger, secure bond
Guidance for deepening intimacy and enhancing emotional connection
Collaborative goal setting and future planning tailored to your partnership
Confidential, supportive environment prioritizing your privacy
Personalized coaching adapted to the unique needs of your relationship
Three 1-hour sessions with expert therapists specializing in DBT
Mindfulness skills to enhance awareness and acceptance of the present moment
Distress tolerance techniques for managing crises without worsening them
Emotion regulation strategies tailored to reduce mood instability
Interpersonal effectiveness training for assertive communication and relationship improvement
Personalized cognitive-behavioural strategies to change negative patterns
Support in decreasing self-harm and impulsive behaviours
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering trust and healing
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced couples therapists specializing in relationship issues
Improvement of communication skills for deeper emotional understanding
Proven conflict resolution strategies to manage disputes constructively
Trusted guidance to rebuild and strengthen emotional trust in your partnership
Support to increase emotional intimacy and affection between partners
Addressing and resolving past issues impacting present relationship dynamics
Tools to identify and change negative behavioural and communication patterns
Assistance in aligning shared goals for a more unified future as a couple
One expert conflict resolution coaching session (£170)
Tailored advice for managing serious arguments and volatile relationships
Practical tools to calm escalations and communicate respectfully
Ethical guidance to promote fairness and mutual understanding
Strategies to break recurring conflict cycles and foster peace
Support for singles and couples seeking healthier relationship dynamics
Confidential, professional, and empathetic coaching environment
Improve emotional regulation and build lasting respect and connection
Key Benefits & Features:
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced self-awareness specialists
Mindfulness techniques fostering emotional presence and grounding
Self-reflection exercises to clarify strengths, values, and goals
Strategies for identifying and managing limiting beliefs
Goal-setting support aligned with personal growth and priorities
Communication coaching to build deeper, more authentic relationships
Exploration of past experiences to understand current relationship dynamics
Flexible weekly or bi-weekly session scheduling to fit your lifestyle
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced art therapy and expressive therapy specialists
Variety of creative modalities including drawing, painting, sculpting, and more
Non-verbal emotional release and processing in a safe, supportive setting
Self-exploration tools fostering insight, empowerment, and resilience
Stress reduction and relaxation through mindful artistic engagement
Gentle approaches to trauma healing using creative expression
Enhancement of communication abilities and interpersonal skills
Confidence building through creative accomplishment and experimentation
Three 1-hour personalized crisis coaching sessions
Initial assessment to understand your crisis and immediate needs
Stabilization strategies to reduce stress and anxiety during tough times
Practical emotional coping techniques for daily challenges
Support to reframe crisis as an opportunity for personal growth
Goal setting for realistic short-term and long-term progress
Daily check-in calls for accountability and ongoing guidance
Compassionate coaching partnership focused on resilience and clarity
One personalized red flag awareness consultation session
Expert guidance on spotting unhealthy relationship behaviours
Strategies for establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries
Confidential, supportive, and non-judgmental advice
Practical tools to protect emotional wellbeing in dating
Empowerment through early detection of warning signs
Support understanding manipulation and control tactics
Tailored advice to foster safer, more respectful relationships
Evidence-based couples workshop to transform communication
Led by a qualified and experienced relationship coach
Practical tools for building trust and mutual understanding
Techniques to strengthen emotional intelligence (EQ)
Training on improving tone, delivery, and social skills
Learn to talk and listen more effectively
Safe, supportive setting for honest partner interaction
Personalized feedback and actionable strategies for lasting results
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with specialists in exposure therapy
Individualized assessment to target specific fears and avoidance behaviours
Gradual exposure exercises designed for safe, effective anxiety management
Coping strategies to handle emotional and physical anxiety responses
Therapist guidance to reduce avoidance and build confidence
Monitoring and adjustment of therapy based on your progress
Supportive, confidential environment ensuring emotional safety
Tools to maintain and continue progress beyond therapy sessions
Two-hour in-home coaching session for a group of six friends
Expert coaching focused on dating problems, tips, and Q&A
Relaxed, social environment with snacks, drinks, and a bottle of wine/champagne
Interactive discussion promoting shared learning and connection
Personalized advice tailored to group interests and challenges
Convenient at-home service for a fun and educational evening
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