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Comprehensive 60-question digital assessment of emotional intelligence and relationship skills
Science-backed tool integrating Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On EQ-i, and attachment theory
Personalized report diagnosing emotional regulation, attachment style, conflict resolution, and communication
Identifies behavioral patterns and emotional blind spots sabotaging relationships
Provides clear indicators for coaching, therapy, or self-improvement interventions
Optional expert 1:1 review session for deep-dive analysis and personalized guidance
Bonus discount on coaching sessions for effective relationship transformation
Designed for singles seeking radical self-awareness and improved emotional connections
Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Skills Scientific Test Diagnostic (EIRSD™) | Science-backed, comprehensive emotional intelligence and relationship skills self-assessment
Unlock the hidden emotional and behavioural patterns that may be sabotaging your love life with the Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Scientific Test Skills Diagnostic (EIRSD™), a signature, scientifically developed self-assessment by Miss Date Doctor. Designed for individuals who experience repeating relationship challenges, difficulty communicating needs, or heightened emotional reactivity, this diagnostic tool uses evidence-based psychological frameworks to provide deep insight into your emotional intelligence (EQ), attachment style, conflict resolution approach, and communication habits.
Grounded in leading theories such as Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On’s EQ-i, reflective functioning, and attachment psychology, the EIRSD™ goes beyond a simple personality test to deliver a nuanced, clear picture of your relationship strengths and areas for growth. Whether you struggle with setting boundaries, managing emotional intensity, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this diagnostic facilitates radical self-awareness—a vital first step toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
What You’ll Discover:
How effectively you identify, regulate, and manage your emotions
Your dominant attachment style’s impact on trust, vulnerability, and closeness
Your default conflict resolution style: avoidance, escalation, or constructive engagement
Whether you create or sabotage boundaries in relationships
Your levels of empathy and communication proficiency
Emotional “red flags” that may push away healthy partners
Who This Is For:
Individuals feeling misunderstood or reactive in relationships
Those cycling through unhealthy dating patterns or attracting unavailable partners
High-achieving professionals excelling at work but struggling emotionally in love
Anyone committed to deepening emotional self-awareness and fostering genuine connection
Why It Works: The EIRSD™ combines Likert-scale questions, behavioral scenarios, and self-reflection prompts with interpersonal style comparisons—offering a scientifically valid, personalized profile. Unlike generic quizzes, it translates your results into actionable insights that highlight when coaching, therapy, or tailored interventions may benefit your relationship journey.
What You Get:
A 60-question, self-guided digital assessment completed at your own pace
Detailed, personalized scoring breakdown by emotional intelligence and relational skill domains
Downloadable report with comprehensive interpretation and practical guidance
Clear indicators suggesting coaching or therapy paths to enhance your emotional and relational skills
Optional: 1-on-1 review session with an expert Miss Date Doctor coach for deeper exploration of your results
Bonus coaching session discount upon completing the test to kickstart your relationship growth
Professional Guidance: Love thrives on emotional maturity, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The EIRSD™ reveals where you excel and flags unconscious behaviours that might be blocking intimacy—empowering you to transform your love life from the inside out.
One confidential pre-marital counselling session for couples
Professional guidance on communication and conflict resolution
In-depth discussions on finances and shared expectations
Exploration of values, goals, and commitment principles
Tools to strengthen emotional intimacy and mutual understanding
Support for couples of all faiths and cultural backgrounds
Strategies to prepare for a resilient, lasting partnership
Expert advice to navigate common pre-marriage challenges
One personalized red flag awareness consultation session
Expert guidance on spotting unhealthy relationship behaviours
Strategies for establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries
Confidential, supportive, and non-judgmental advice
Practical tools to protect emotional wellbeing in dating
Empowerment through early detection of warning signs
Support understanding manipulation and control tactics
Tailored advice to foster safer, more respectful relationships
Three 1-hour counselling sessions at convenient local office locations
Techniques to enhance communication and foster emotional understanding
Effective conflict resolution strategies to promote relationship harmony
Trust rebuilding exercises to cultivate a stronger, secure bond
Guidance for deepening intimacy and enhancing emotional connection
Collaborative goal setting and future planning tailored to your partnership
Confidential, supportive environment prioritizing your privacy
Personalized coaching adapted to the unique needs of your relationship
Three 1-hour therapy and coaching sessions with experienced anger management specialists
Psychotherapy addressing underlying pain points and emotional triggers
Emotional intelligence training to recognize and regulate anger responses
Social skills exercises for better communication and conflict resolution
Personalized, person-centred coaching tailored to your specific needs
Strategies for developing healthy coping and self-regulation techniques
Confidential and supportive therapeutic environment
Focus on lasting emotional balance and improved relationships
Three 1-hour individual CBT sessions with experienced therapists
Evidence-based cognitive restructuring and behavioral activation techniques
Support for anxiety, depression, PTSD, aggression, and alcohol misuse
Practical coping skills to manage thoughts, emotions, and insomnia
Help breaking negative cycles and promoting psychological resilience
Confidential, supportive therapy environment focused on lasting change
Personalized treatment tailored to your unique mental health needs
Key Benefits & Features:
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced self-awareness specialists
Mindfulness techniques fostering emotional presence and grounding
Self-reflection exercises to clarify strengths, values, and goals
Strategies for identifying and managing limiting beliefs
Goal-setting support aligned with personal growth and priorities
Communication coaching to build deeper, more authentic relationships
Exploration of past experiences to understand current relationship dynamics
Flexible weekly or bi-weekly session scheduling to fit your lifestyle
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with specialists in exposure therapy
Individualized assessment to target specific fears and avoidance behaviours
Gradual exposure exercises designed for safe, effective anxiety management
Coping strategies to handle emotional and physical anxiety responses
Therapist guidance to reduce avoidance and build confidence
Monitoring and adjustment of therapy based on your progress
Supportive, confidential environment ensuring emotional safety
Tools to maintain and continue progress beyond therapy sessions
Three 1-hour coaching sessions focused on anger control and emotional regulation
Customized strategies addressing negative behavior patterns and triggers
Emotional intelligence training to enhance understanding and management of feelings
Practical self-regulation techniques and improvement coaching
Tests and situational guidance tailored to your personal challenges
Supportive, confidential environment fostering lasting personal growth
Tools for improved communication and healthier relationships
Five 1-hour counselling sessions scheduled twice weekly for sustained support
Root cause exploration and tailored healing strategies for anxiety and stress
Integration of CBT and modern stress relief techniques
Life coaching to empower personal growth and resilience
Emotional intelligence training to enhance emotional regulation and relationships
Continuous coaching support fostering progress and adaptation
Safe, confidential therapeutic environment focused on emotional well-being
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced therapists providing individualized support
Thorough personal assessment to address your specific challenges
Personalized therapeutic approaches for effective emotional healing
Safe, confidential, and empathetic counselling environment
Practical coping strategies for managing stress and anxiety
Support for self-exploration and personal development
Collaborative goal setting to track your progress
Flexible scheduling designed to fit your lifestyle
Four weekly 1-hour specialized therapy sessions for NPD (£1,750)
Integrates proven approaches: CBT, DBT, Psychodynamic, and Metacognitive therapies
Focus on recognizing and transforming maladaptive narcissistic patterns
Enhances emotional regulation, empathy, and relational skills
Psychoeducation on NPD symptoms and coping strategies
Supports management of co-occurring issues like anxiety or depression
Confidential and tailored therapy environment for sustainable change
Designed for individuals committed to personal growth and healthier relationships
Four weekly 1-hour coaching sessions focused on personal growth and relationship improvement
Two 30-minute interviews with ex-partners conducted with their consent
In-depth assessment of past relationship issues and negative patterns
Professional coaching tailored to enhance self-understanding and communication
Confidential, compassionate support fostering honest reflection and positive change
Structured programme promoting sustained insight and relational skill development
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced Solution-Focused Brief Therapy specialists
Collaborative process identifying goals and customized solutions
Strengths-based approach leveraging your existing resources
Future-oriented, action-driven therapy for efficient progress
Practical tools for empowerment and resilience building
Confidential, supportive environment for focused therapeutic work
Emphasis on measurable outcomes and personal growth
Positive, client-led approach fostering lasting transformation
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced career development specialists
Comprehensive analysis of past employment and work opportunities
Expert guidance to clarify career direction and goals
Support in identifying and addressing career challenges and weaknesses
Personalized decision-making aid for informed progression choices
Creation of a tailored career action plan for sustained growth
Confidential coaching environment fostering empowerment and clarity
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with experienced professionals specializing in rumination
In-depth understanding of rumination and its emotional effects
Cognitive techniques to challenge and reshape negative thought patterns
Mindfulness exercises to promote present moment awareness and calm
Emotional regulation strategies to ease stress and anxiety
Support in breaking the cycle of repetitive, intrusive thoughts
Positive coping mechanisms to improve mental resilience
Emphasis on self-compassion and therapeutic goal setting for lasting change
Two-hour in-home coaching session for a group of six friends
Expert coaching focused on dating problems, tips, and Q&A
Relaxed, social environment with snacks, drinks, and a bottle of wine/champagne
Interactive discussion promoting shared learning and connection
Personalized advice tailored to group interests and challenges
Convenient at-home service for a fun and educational evening
Three one-hour individual therapy sessions focused on anxiety relief
Expert assessment of anxiety triggers and underlying causes
Personalized coping strategies for managing anxiety symptoms
Techniques to identify and change negative thought patterns
Emotional regulation skills tailored to anxiety management
Exposure therapy support to face fears gradually (if appropriate)
Mindfulness practices to enhance present-moment calm and reduce worry
Goal setting to build resilience and track progress toward wellbeing
Three 1-hour sessions with skilled schema therapy experts
Exploration and identification of deep-seated emotional patterns and schemas
Combination of cognitive-behavioral and psychodynamic therapy techniques
Personalized strategies for modifying unhelpful beliefs and behaviors
Development of healthier coping and interpersonal skills
Enhanced self-awareness and emotional regulation tools
Supportive, confidential environment for safe healing
Focus on long-term emotional resilience and personal growth
Entry to a professionally facilitated virtual speed dating event
Meet multiple quality singles safely from home
Events tailored by age groups and shared interests
Fun, structured timed virtual mini-dates
Inclusive and supportive community setting
Expert event facilitators ensure smooth experience
Practice social and dating skills in real conversations
Convenient and engaging way to find meaningful connections
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