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Comprehensive 60-question digital assessment of emotional intelligence and relationship skills
Science-backed tool integrating Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On EQ-i, and attachment theory
Personalized report diagnosing emotional regulation, attachment style, conflict resolution, and communication
Identifies behavioral patterns and emotional blind spots sabotaging relationships
Provides clear indicators for coaching, therapy, or self-improvement interventions
Optional expert 1:1 review session for deep-dive analysis and personalized guidance
Bonus discount on coaching sessions for effective relationship transformation
Designed for singles seeking radical self-awareness and improved emotional connections
Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Skills Scientific Test Diagnostic (EIRSD™) | Science-backed, comprehensive emotional intelligence and relationship skills self-assessment
Unlock the hidden emotional and behavioural patterns that may be sabotaging your love life with the Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Scientific Test Skills Diagnostic (EIRSD™), a signature, scientifically developed self-assessment by Miss Date Doctor. Designed for individuals who experience repeating relationship challenges, difficulty communicating needs, or heightened emotional reactivity, this diagnostic tool uses evidence-based psychological frameworks to provide deep insight into your emotional intelligence (EQ), attachment style, conflict resolution approach, and communication habits.
Grounded in leading theories such as Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On’s EQ-i, reflective functioning, and attachment psychology, the EIRSD™ goes beyond a simple personality test to deliver a nuanced, clear picture of your relationship strengths and areas for growth. Whether you struggle with setting boundaries, managing emotional intensity, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this diagnostic facilitates radical self-awareness—a vital first step toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
What You’ll Discover:
How effectively you identify, regulate, and manage your emotions
Your dominant attachment style’s impact on trust, vulnerability, and closeness
Your default conflict resolution style: avoidance, escalation, or constructive engagement
Whether you create or sabotage boundaries in relationships
Your levels of empathy and communication proficiency
Emotional “red flags” that may push away healthy partners
Who This Is For:
Individuals feeling misunderstood or reactive in relationships
Those cycling through unhealthy dating patterns or attracting unavailable partners
High-achieving professionals excelling at work but struggling emotionally in love
Anyone committed to deepening emotional self-awareness and fostering genuine connection
Why It Works: The EIRSD™ combines Likert-scale questions, behavioral scenarios, and self-reflection prompts with interpersonal style comparisons—offering a scientifically valid, personalized profile. Unlike generic quizzes, it translates your results into actionable insights that highlight when coaching, therapy, or tailored interventions may benefit your relationship journey.
What You Get:
A 60-question, self-guided digital assessment completed at your own pace
Detailed, personalized scoring breakdown by emotional intelligence and relational skill domains
Downloadable report with comprehensive interpretation and practical guidance
Clear indicators suggesting coaching or therapy paths to enhance your emotional and relational skills
Optional: 1-on-1 review session with an expert Miss Date Doctor coach for deeper exploration of your results
Bonus coaching session discount upon completing the test to kickstart your relationship growth
Professional Guidance: Love thrives on emotional maturity, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The EIRSD™ reveals where you excel and flags unconscious behaviours that might be blocking intimacy—empowering you to transform your love life from the inside out.
Three 1-hour sessions with certified social anxiety professionals
Comprehensive social anxiety testing and personalized coaching
Training in emotional intelligence and self-regulation skills
Exposure hierarchy therapy to face social fears step-by-step
Practical social skills and confidence-building strategies
Objective goal setting and progress monitoring
Structured exercises, homework, and optional dating/relationship support
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering growth and resilience
One personalized red flag awareness consultation session
Expert guidance on spotting unhealthy relationship behaviours
Strategies for establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries
Confidential, supportive, and non-judgmental advice
Practical tools to protect emotional wellbeing in dating
Empowerment through early detection of warning signs
Support understanding manipulation and control tactics
Tailored advice to foster safer, more respectful relationships
One-hour private coaching session with a relationship expert
Immediate, professional advice for relationship problems and stress
Suitable for singles or couples; confidential and supportive environment
Personalized action steps based on your unique situation
Practical strategies to improve communication and connection
Flexible booking, including same-day appointments available
Non-judgemental, compassionate support grounded in real experience
Achieve clarity and confidence for lasting relationship improvements
Three 1-hour sessions with skilled schema therapy experts
Exploration and identification of deep-seated emotional patterns and schemas
Combination of cognitive-behavioral and psychodynamic therapy techniques
Personalized strategies for modifying unhelpful beliefs and behaviors
Development of healthier coping and interpersonal skills
Enhanced self-awareness and emotional regulation tools
Supportive, confidential environment for safe healing
Focus on long-term emotional resilience and personal growth
Three 1-hour private occupational therapy sessions with experienced London therapists
Comprehensive individualized assessments to tailor your therapy plan
Customized treatment focusing on enhancing functional abilities and independence
One-on-one sessions providing dedicated, personalized care
Continuous progress monitoring and adaptive intervention strategies
Flexible scheduling to accommodate busy lifestyles
Collaborative approach empowering your active role in therapy
Confidential sessions ensuring comfort, privacy, and trust
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced trauma-informed therapists
Safe, confidential environment for exploring trauma and emotional healing
Evidence-based trauma processing to gently reduce emotional intensity
Empowerment and resilience-building techniques to reclaim your strength
Practical coping strategies for managing trauma triggers and stress
Support in rebuilding self-esteem and fostering self-compassion
Mindfulness and grounding exercises for present-moment awareness
Guidance to improve relationships by understanding trauma’s impact
Confidential relationship assessment session for individuals or couples
Expert analysis of communication, emotional needs, and compatibility
Personalized feedback highlighting strengths and areas to improve
Actionable next steps to enhance relationship health and satisfaction
Supportive and non-judgemental environment for open discussion
Guidance on effective conflict resolution strategies
Trusted professional advice to foster lasting connection and trust
Clear insights empowering confident relationship decisions
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced therapists employing integrative, evidence-based approaches
Comprehensive assessment tailored to your unique therapeutic needs
Personalized treatment plans combining CBT, Psychodynamic, Mindfulness, and other modalities
Flexible, adaptive therapy evolving with your progress and changing goals
Holistic focus addressing emotional, psychological, and physical well-being
Targeted interventions for anxiety, relationships, self-esteem, and more
Client empowerment through collaborative goal setting and active participation
Continuous reassessment ensuring effective, lasting therapeutic outcomes
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced intimacy specialists
Practical sensate focus exercises to enhance emotional and physical connection
Communication coaching to foster honest and empathetic dialogue
Mindfulness techniques promoting present-moment intimacy awareness
Support navigating relationship dynamics and intimacy obstacles
Tools for creating a satisfying and connected partnership
Confidential, supportive coaching environment tailored to your unique needs
Three 1-hour individual CBT sessions with experienced therapists
Evidence-based cognitive restructuring and behavioral activation techniques
Support for anxiety, depression, PTSD, aggression, and alcohol misuse
Practical coping skills to manage thoughts, emotions, and insomnia
Help breaking negative cycles and promoting psychological resilience
Confidential, supportive therapy environment focused on lasting change
Personalized treatment tailored to your unique mental health needs
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with experienced professionals specializing in rumination
In-depth understanding of rumination and its emotional effects
Cognitive techniques to challenge and reshape negative thought patterns
Mindfulness exercises to promote present moment awareness and calm
Emotional regulation strategies to ease stress and anxiety
Support in breaking the cycle of repetitive, intrusive thoughts
Positive coping mechanisms to improve mental resilience
Emphasis on self-compassion and therapeutic goal setting for lasting change
Entry to a professionally facilitated virtual speed dating event
Meet multiple quality singles safely from home
Events tailored by age groups and shared interests
Fun, structured timed virtual mini-dates
Inclusive and supportive community setting
Expert event facilitators ensure smooth experience
Practice social and dating skills in real conversations
Convenient and engaging way to find meaningful connections
Three 1-hour individual therapy sessions with qualified therapists
Comprehensive assessment to understand personal challenges and goals
Customized treatment plan using evidence-based therapeutic methods
Skill-building for emotional regulation and stress management
Practical strategies to overcome mental and emotional obstacles
Goal setting and progress review to ensure sustained growth
Safe, confidential, and supportive environment for healing
Designed to empower resilience, wellbeing, and personal transformation
Three 1-hour personalized crisis coaching sessions
Initial assessment to understand your crisis and immediate needs
Stabilization strategies to reduce stress and anxiety during tough times
Practical emotional coping techniques for daily challenges
Support to reframe crisis as an opportunity for personal growth
Goal setting for realistic short-term and long-term progress
Daily check-in calls for accountability and ongoing guidance
Compassionate coaching partnership focused on resilience and clarity
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with specialists in exposure therapy
Individualized assessment to target specific fears and avoidance behaviours
Gradual exposure exercises designed for safe, effective anxiety management
Coping strategies to handle emotional and physical anxiety responses
Therapist guidance to reduce avoidance and build confidence
Monitoring and adjustment of therapy based on your progress
Supportive, confidential environment ensuring emotional safety
Tools to maintain and continue progress beyond therapy sessions
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced mindfulness instructors
Mindfulness meditation training to enhance focused awareness and presence
Incorporation of body awareness and gentle movement for holistic health
Development of non-judgmental acceptance to better manage stress and anxiety
Techniques to regulate emotions and increase coping capacity
Support in building a sustainable mindfulness practice
Compassionate, confidential environment fostering growth and inner calm
Evidence-based approach promoting emotional resilience and well-being
Key Benefits & Features:
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced wellness professionals
Creation of a customized wellness plan tailored to your unique goals
Support for building healthy habits and overcoming obstacles
Nutrition guidance promoting balanced, informed food choices
Integration of mind-body techniques to enhance overall well-being
Strategies for cultivating a balanced, sustainable lifestyle
Emphasis on personal growth and lasting positive health changes
Confidential, supportive coaching environment designed for your success
Evidence-based couples workshop to transform communication
Led by a qualified and experienced relationship coach
Practical tools for building trust and mutual understanding
Techniques to strengthen emotional intelligence (EQ)
Training on improving tone, delivery, and social skills
Learn to talk and listen more effectively
Safe, supportive setting for honest partner interaction
Personalized feedback and actionable strategies for lasting results
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced therapists providing individualized support
Thorough personal assessment to address your specific challenges
Personalized therapeutic approaches for effective emotional healing
Safe, confidential, and empathetic counselling environment
Practical coping strategies for managing stress and anxiety
Support for self-exploration and personal development
Collaborative goal setting to track your progress
Flexible scheduling designed to fit your lifestyle
Three 1-hour sessions with expert therapists specializing in DBT
Mindfulness skills to enhance awareness and acceptance of the present moment
Distress tolerance techniques for managing crises without worsening them
Emotion regulation strategies tailored to reduce mood instability
Interpersonal effectiveness training for assertive communication and relationship improvement
Personalized cognitive-behavioural strategies to change negative patterns
Support in decreasing self-harm and impulsive behaviours
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering trust and healing
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