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Comprehensive 60-question digital assessment of emotional intelligence and relationship skills
Science-backed tool integrating Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On EQ-i, and attachment theory
Personalized report diagnosing emotional regulation, attachment style, conflict resolution, and communication
Identifies behavioral patterns and emotional blind spots sabotaging relationships
Provides clear indicators for coaching, therapy, or self-improvement interventions
Optional expert 1:1 review session for deep-dive analysis and personalized guidance
Bonus discount on coaching sessions for effective relationship transformation
Designed for singles seeking radical self-awareness and improved emotional connections
Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Skills Scientific Test Diagnostic (EIRSD™) | Science-backed, comprehensive emotional intelligence and relationship skills self-assessment
Unlock the hidden emotional and behavioural patterns that may be sabotaging your love life with the Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Scientific Test Skills Diagnostic (EIRSD™), a signature, scientifically developed self-assessment by Miss Date Doctor. Designed for individuals who experience repeating relationship challenges, difficulty communicating needs, or heightened emotional reactivity, this diagnostic tool uses evidence-based psychological frameworks to provide deep insight into your emotional intelligence (EQ), attachment style, conflict resolution approach, and communication habits.
Grounded in leading theories such as Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On’s EQ-i, reflective functioning, and attachment psychology, the EIRSD™ goes beyond a simple personality test to deliver a nuanced, clear picture of your relationship strengths and areas for growth. Whether you struggle with setting boundaries, managing emotional intensity, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this diagnostic facilitates radical self-awareness—a vital first step toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
What You’ll Discover:
How effectively you identify, regulate, and manage your emotions
Your dominant attachment style’s impact on trust, vulnerability, and closeness
Your default conflict resolution style: avoidance, escalation, or constructive engagement
Whether you create or sabotage boundaries in relationships
Your levels of empathy and communication proficiency
Emotional “red flags” that may push away healthy partners
Who This Is For:
Individuals feeling misunderstood or reactive in relationships
Those cycling through unhealthy dating patterns or attracting unavailable partners
High-achieving professionals excelling at work but struggling emotionally in love
Anyone committed to deepening emotional self-awareness and fostering genuine connection
Why It Works: The EIRSD™ combines Likert-scale questions, behavioral scenarios, and self-reflection prompts with interpersonal style comparisons—offering a scientifically valid, personalized profile. Unlike generic quizzes, it translates your results into actionable insights that highlight when coaching, therapy, or tailored interventions may benefit your relationship journey.
What You Get:
A 60-question, self-guided digital assessment completed at your own pace
Detailed, personalized scoring breakdown by emotional intelligence and relational skill domains
Downloadable report with comprehensive interpretation and practical guidance
Clear indicators suggesting coaching or therapy paths to enhance your emotional and relational skills
Optional: 1-on-1 review session with an expert Miss Date Doctor coach for deeper exploration of your results
Bonus coaching session discount upon completing the test to kickstart your relationship growth
Professional Guidance: Love thrives on emotional maturity, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The EIRSD™ reveals where you excel and flags unconscious behaviours that might be blocking intimacy—empowering you to transform your love life from the inside out.
One 1-hour class teaching the four essential components of mental fitness
Practical strategies for self-acceptance, self-esteem, resilience, and emotion management
Techniques to build confidence and reduce anxiety
Tools to identify and eliminate cognitive distortions and self-sabotage
Introspection and personality exploration for increased self-awareness
Support addressing challenging behavioral patterns and relationship issues
Evidence-based approach promoting mental health and emotional well-being
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Three 1-hour sessions with experienced therapists employing integrative, evidence-based approaches
Comprehensive assessment tailored to your unique therapeutic needs
Personalized treatment plans combining CBT, Psychodynamic, Mindfulness, and other modalities
Flexible, adaptive therapy evolving with your progress and changing goals
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Targeted interventions for anxiety, relationships, self-esteem, and more
Client empowerment through collaborative goal setting and active participation
Continuous reassessment ensuring effective, lasting therapeutic outcomes
Three 1-hour counselling sessions with experienced therapists specializing in life adjustments
Deep understanding of the emotional effects of major life transitions
Personalized coping techniques to manage stress and anxiety effectively
Confidential, empathetic environment for open emotional exploration
Guidance to build and utilize supportive personal networks
Support balancing change while maintaining life stability
Emphasis on resilience-building and compassionate self-care
Assistance in reframing transitions as opportunities for growth and new experiences
Personalized confidence coaching tailored for singles
Practical strategies to boost dating self-esteem
Improve social skills for better connection and communication
Sessions available in-person or online for flexibility
Real-world experience and personalized feedback
Overcome dating fears, anxieties, and self-doubt
Develop authentic presentation and engaging interaction skills
Free discovery call to explore your needs and goals
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with specialists in exposure therapy
Individualized assessment to target specific fears and avoidance behaviours
Gradual exposure exercises designed for safe, effective anxiety management
Coping strategies to handle emotional and physical anxiety responses
Therapist guidance to reduce avoidance and build confidence
Monitoring and adjustment of therapy based on your progress
Supportive, confidential environment ensuring emotional safety
Tools to maintain and continue progress beyond therapy sessions
Key Benefits & Features:
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced wellness professionals
Creation of a customized wellness plan tailored to your unique goals
Support for building healthy habits and overcoming obstacles
Nutrition guidance promoting balanced, informed food choices
Integration of mind-body techniques to enhance overall well-being
Strategies for cultivating a balanced, sustainable lifestyle
Emphasis on personal growth and lasting positive health changes
Confidential, supportive coaching environment designed for your success
Three 1-hour sessions with skilled schema therapy experts
Exploration and identification of deep-seated emotional patterns and schemas
Combination of cognitive-behavioral and psychodynamic therapy techniques
Personalized strategies for modifying unhelpful beliefs and behaviors
Development of healthier coping and interpersonal skills
Enhanced self-awareness and emotional regulation tools
Supportive, confidential environment for safe healing
Focus on long-term emotional resilience and personal growth
Personalized 1-hour breathwork coaching session tailored to your needs
Expert guidance using diaphragmatic, box, coherent, and mindful breathing
Techniques to activate parasympathetic nervous system and reduce stress
Mental clarity exercises to interrupt overthinking and panic responses
Post-session resource pack to support home practice and ongoing calm
Flexible private sessions via secure video call or in-person availability
Proven benefits: improved sleep, emotional regulation, and physical health
Suitable for all experience levels, backgrounds, and genders
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced intimacy specialists
Practical sensate focus exercises to enhance emotional and physical connection
Communication coaching to foster honest and empathetic dialogue
Mindfulness techniques promoting present-moment intimacy awareness
Support navigating relationship dynamics and intimacy obstacles
Tools for creating a satisfying and connected partnership
Confidential, supportive coaching environment tailored to your unique needs
Three 1-hour psychotherapy sessions with experienced clinicians in London
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Supportive, confidential environment fostering emotional safety and trust
Evidence-based techniques to address emotional and psychological challenges
Tools to develop coping strategies and enhance emotional regulation
Focus on increasing self-awareness and personal insight
Flexible scheduling to fit your busy lifestyle
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Three 1-hour sessions with experienced ACT therapists
Evidence-based exercises to enhance acceptance and reduce avoidance
Techniques fostering psychological flexibility and emotional resilience
Guidance in identifying and committing to your core values
Strategies to embrace discomfort and uncertainty as growth opportunities
Support in strengthening relationships and achieving meaningful goals
Confidential, empathic environment promoting trust and empowerment
Personalized therapy tailored to your unique journey and challenges
Private counselling sessions focused on breakup recovery and trauma healing
Expert guidance to manage betrayal trauma and depression symptoms
Strategies to restore confidence and foster positive mindset shifts
Safe, confidential, and judgment-free space for emotional healing
Tools to build emotional resilience and cope with loss effectively
Support for processing grief and overcoming relationship setbacks
Qualified counsellors specialized in relationship and breakup trauma
Empowering clients to move forward with strength and renewed hope
One confidential pre-marital counselling session for couples
Professional guidance on communication and conflict resolution
In-depth discussions on finances and shared expectations
Exploration of values, goals, and commitment principles
Tools to strengthen emotional intimacy and mutual understanding
Support for couples of all faiths and cultural backgrounds
Strategies to prepare for a resilient, lasting partnership
Expert advice to navigate common pre-marriage challenges
Confidential relationship assessment session for individuals or couples
Expert analysis of communication, emotional needs, and compatibility
Personalized feedback highlighting strengths and areas to improve
Actionable next steps to enhance relationship health and satisfaction
Supportive and non-judgemental environment for open discussion
Guidance on effective conflict resolution strategies
Trusted professional advice to foster lasting connection and trust
Clear insights empowering confident relationship decisions
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced couples therapists specializing in relationship issues
Improvement of communication skills for deeper emotional understanding
Proven conflict resolution strategies to manage disputes constructively
Trusted guidance to rebuild and strengthen emotional trust in your partnership
Support to increase emotional intimacy and affection between partners
Addressing and resolving past issues impacting present relationship dynamics
Tools to identify and change negative behavioural and communication patterns
Assistance in aligning shared goals for a more unified future as a couple
Three 1-hour sessions with expert therapists specializing in DBT
Mindfulness skills to enhance awareness and acceptance of the present moment
Distress tolerance techniques for managing crises without worsening them
Emotion regulation strategies tailored to reduce mood instability
Interpersonal effectiveness training for assertive communication and relationship improvement
Personalized cognitive-behavioural strategies to change negative patterns
Support in decreasing self-harm and impulsive behaviours
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering trust and healing
Entry to a professionally facilitated virtual speed dating event
Meet multiple quality singles safely from home
Events tailored by age groups and shared interests
Fun, structured timed virtual mini-dates
Inclusive and supportive community setting
Expert event facilitators ensure smooth experience
Practice social and dating skills in real conversations
Convenient and engaging way to find meaningful connections
Three 1-hour therapy and coaching sessions with experienced anger management specialists
Psychotherapy addressing underlying pain points and emotional triggers
Emotional intelligence training to recognize and regulate anger responses
Social skills exercises for better communication and conflict resolution
Personalized, person-centred coaching tailored to your specific needs
Strategies for developing healthy coping and self-regulation techniques
Confidential and supportive therapeutic environment
Focus on lasting emotional balance and improved relationships
Three 1-hour sessions with certified social anxiety professionals
Comprehensive social anxiety testing and personalized coaching
Training in emotional intelligence and self-regulation skills
Exposure hierarchy therapy to face social fears step-by-step
Practical social skills and confidence-building strategies
Objective goal setting and progress monitoring
Structured exercises, homework, and optional dating/relationship support
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering growth and resilience
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