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Comprehensive 60-question digital assessment of emotional intelligence and relationship skills
Science-backed tool integrating Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On EQ-i, and attachment theory
Personalized report diagnosing emotional regulation, attachment style, conflict resolution, and communication
Identifies behavioral patterns and emotional blind spots sabotaging relationships
Provides clear indicators for coaching, therapy, or self-improvement interventions
Optional expert 1:1 review session for deep-dive analysis and personalized guidance
Bonus discount on coaching sessions for effective relationship transformation
Designed for singles seeking radical self-awareness and improved emotional connections
Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Skills Scientific Test Diagnostic (EIRSD™) | Science-backed, comprehensive emotional intelligence and relationship skills self-assessment
Unlock the hidden emotional and behavioural patterns that may be sabotaging your love life with the Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Scientific Test Skills Diagnostic (EIRSD™), a signature, scientifically developed self-assessment by Miss Date Doctor. Designed for individuals who experience repeating relationship challenges, difficulty communicating needs, or heightened emotional reactivity, this diagnostic tool uses evidence-based psychological frameworks to provide deep insight into your emotional intelligence (EQ), attachment style, conflict resolution approach, and communication habits.
Grounded in leading theories such as Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On’s EQ-i, reflective functioning, and attachment psychology, the EIRSD™ goes beyond a simple personality test to deliver a nuanced, clear picture of your relationship strengths and areas for growth. Whether you struggle with setting boundaries, managing emotional intensity, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this diagnostic facilitates radical self-awareness—a vital first step toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
What You’ll Discover:
How effectively you identify, regulate, and manage your emotions
Your dominant attachment style’s impact on trust, vulnerability, and closeness
Your default conflict resolution style: avoidance, escalation, or constructive engagement
Whether you create or sabotage boundaries in relationships
Your levels of empathy and communication proficiency
Emotional “red flags” that may push away healthy partners
Who This Is For:
Individuals feeling misunderstood or reactive in relationships
Those cycling through unhealthy dating patterns or attracting unavailable partners
High-achieving professionals excelling at work but struggling emotionally in love
Anyone committed to deepening emotional self-awareness and fostering genuine connection
Why It Works: The EIRSD™ combines Likert-scale questions, behavioral scenarios, and self-reflection prompts with interpersonal style comparisons—offering a scientifically valid, personalized profile. Unlike generic quizzes, it translates your results into actionable insights that highlight when coaching, therapy, or tailored interventions may benefit your relationship journey.
What You Get:
A 60-question, self-guided digital assessment completed at your own pace
Detailed, personalized scoring breakdown by emotional intelligence and relational skill domains
Downloadable report with comprehensive interpretation and practical guidance
Clear indicators suggesting coaching or therapy paths to enhance your emotional and relational skills
Optional: 1-on-1 review session with an expert Miss Date Doctor coach for deeper exploration of your results
Bonus coaching session discount upon completing the test to kickstart your relationship growth
Professional Guidance: Love thrives on emotional maturity, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The EIRSD™ reveals where you excel and flags unconscious behaviours that might be blocking intimacy—empowering you to transform your love life from the inside out.
One-hour private coaching session with a relationship expert
Immediate, professional advice for relationship problems and stress
Suitable for singles or couples; confidential and supportive environment
Personalized action steps based on your unique situation
Practical strategies to improve communication and connection
Flexible booking, including same-day appointments available
Non-judgemental, compassionate support grounded in real experience
Achieve clarity and confidence for lasting relationship improvements
Three one-hour individual therapy sessions focused on anxiety relief
Expert assessment of anxiety triggers and underlying causes
Personalized coping strategies for managing anxiety symptoms
Techniques to identify and change negative thought patterns
Emotional regulation skills tailored to anxiety management
Exposure therapy support to face fears gradually (if appropriate)
Mindfulness practices to enhance present-moment calm and reduce worry
Goal setting to build resilience and track progress toward wellbeing
Three 1-hour sessions with expert therapists specializing in DBT
Mindfulness skills to enhance awareness and acceptance of the present moment
Distress tolerance techniques for managing crises without worsening them
Emotion regulation strategies tailored to reduce mood instability
Interpersonal effectiveness training for assertive communication and relationship improvement
Personalized cognitive-behavioural strategies to change negative patterns
Support in decreasing self-harm and impulsive behaviours
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering trust and healing
Four 1-hour therapy sessions with experienced professionals specializing in rumination
In-depth understanding of rumination and its emotional effects
Cognitive techniques to challenge and reshape negative thought patterns
Mindfulness exercises to promote present moment awareness and calm
Emotional regulation strategies to ease stress and anxiety
Support in breaking the cycle of repetitive, intrusive thoughts
Positive coping mechanisms to improve mental resilience
Emphasis on self-compassion and therapeutic goal setting for lasting change
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced Solution-Focused Brief Therapy specialists
Collaborative process identifying goals and customized solutions
Strengths-based approach leveraging your existing resources
Future-oriented, action-driven therapy for efficient progress
Practical tools for empowerment and resilience building
Confidential, supportive environment for focused therapeutic work
Emphasis on measurable outcomes and personal growth
Positive, client-led approach fostering lasting transformation
One 1-hour confidential telephone counselling session with a professional M.D.D coach
Personalized self-improvement and relationship guidance tailored to your unique needs
Support for issues including past relationships, loneliness, cheating, and dating skills
Flexible and convenient phone format enabling access from anywhere
Practical coaching focusing on confidence-building and emotional wellbeing
Empathetic, confidential communication in a convenient and comfortable setting
One 1-hour individual psychotherapy session with a licensed therapist
Personalized treatment utilizing CBT, psychodynamic, and mindfulness approaches
Focus on anxiety, depression, trauma treatment, and emotional support
Safe, confidential, and supportive therapeutic environment
Practical strategies for emotional regulation and coping
Evidence-based care promoting mental health recovery and personal growth
Non-judgmental, client-centered therapy tailored to your needs
Two-hour in-home coaching session for a group of six friends
Expert coaching focused on dating problems, tips, and Q&A
Relaxed, social environment with snacks, drinks, and a bottle of wine/champagne
Interactive discussion promoting shared learning and connection
Personalized advice tailored to group interests and challenges
Convenient at-home service for a fun and educational evening
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced therapists employing integrative, evidence-based approaches
Comprehensive assessment tailored to your unique therapeutic needs
Personalized treatment plans combining CBT, Psychodynamic, Mindfulness, and other modalities
Flexible, adaptive therapy evolving with your progress and changing goals
Holistic focus addressing emotional, psychological, and physical well-being
Targeted interventions for anxiety, relationships, self-esteem, and more
Client empowerment through collaborative goal setting and active participation
Continuous reassessment ensuring effective, lasting therapeutic outcomes
One expert conflict resolution coaching session (£170)
Tailored advice for managing serious arguments and volatile relationships
Practical tools to calm escalations and communicate respectfully
Ethical guidance to promote fairness and mutual understanding
Strategies to break recurring conflict cycles and foster peace
Support for singles and couples seeking healthier relationship dynamics
Confidential, professional, and empathetic coaching environment
Improve emotional regulation and build lasting respect and connection
Professional review of extensive conversation records including texts, WhatsApp, emails, and documents
Identification of emotional undertones and communication patterns
Tailored advice to improve what you say and how you engage
Support for enhancing emotional dialogue and interpersonal understanding
Bespoke pricing based on the volume of conversation analysis needed
Confidential and empathetic approach to your personal communications
Three 1-hour coaching sessions focused on anger control and emotional regulation
Customized strategies addressing negative behavior patterns and triggers
Emotional intelligence training to enhance understanding and management of feelings
Practical self-regulation techniques and improvement coaching
Tests and situational guidance tailored to your personal challenges
Supportive, confidential environment fostering lasting personal growth
Tools for improved communication and healthier relationships
Four 1-hour expert coaching sessions tailored for teen development
Training in social skills, rejection management, and emotional resilience
Relationship and contraception education for healthy decision-making
Emotional intelligence skill-building including empathy and self-regulation
Guidance on discipline, work ethic, self-love, and managing expectations
Strategies to overcome anxiety and cultivate confident self-expression
Financial discipline and friendship choices support
Practical preparation for life’s transitions and challenges
Confidential, supportive environment fostering teen growth
One confidential pre-marital counselling session for couples
Professional guidance on communication and conflict resolution
In-depth discussions on finances and shared expectations
Exploration of values, goals, and commitment principles
Tools to strengthen emotional intimacy and mutual understanding
Support for couples of all faiths and cultural backgrounds
Strategies to prepare for a resilient, lasting partnership
Expert advice to navigate common pre-marriage challenges
Entry to a professionally facilitated virtual speed dating event
Meet multiple quality singles safely from home
Events tailored by age groups and shared interests
Fun, structured timed virtual mini-dates
Inclusive and supportive community setting
Expert event facilitators ensure smooth experience
Practice social and dating skills in real conversations
Convenient and engaging way to find meaningful connections
Three personalized 1-hour trauma-informed therapy sessions
Safe, supportive, and confidential environment for healing
Techniques to process and integrate traumatic memories healthily
Emotional regulation tools for managing trauma-related stress
Practical coping strategies to handle triggers and anxiety
Support rebuilding trust, safety, and emotional security
Focus on fostering resilience and post-traumatic personal growth
Experienced therapists specializing in trauma recovery and care
Three 1-hour sessions with therapists specializing in retroactive jealousy and relationship counseling
Deep insights into the emotional impact and root causes of retroactive jealousy
Evidence-based coping strategies to manage anxiety and intrusive thoughts
Support for building self-confidence and feeling secure in your relationship
Communication guidance to improve emotional connection with your partner
Trust rebuilding techniques to address jealousy’s underlying issues
Help processing and letting go of obsessive past-focused thoughts
Focus on cultivating a positive mindset and emotional intimacy for relationship growth
Three 1-hour sessions with certified social anxiety professionals
Comprehensive social anxiety testing and personalized coaching
Training in emotional intelligence and self-regulation skills
Exposure hierarchy therapy to face social fears step-by-step
Practical social skills and confidence-building strategies
Objective goal setting and progress monitoring
Structured exercises, homework, and optional dating/relationship support
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering growth and resilience
Four weekly 1-hour coaching sessions focused on personal growth and relationship improvement
Two 30-minute interviews with ex-partners conducted with their consent
In-depth assessment of past relationship issues and negative patterns
Professional coaching tailored to enhance self-understanding and communication
Confidential, compassionate support fostering honest reflection and positive change
Structured programme promoting sustained insight and relational skill development
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced art therapy and expressive therapy specialists
Variety of creative modalities including drawing, painting, sculpting, and more
Non-verbal emotional release and processing in a safe, supportive setting
Self-exploration tools fostering insight, empowerment, and resilience
Stress reduction and relaxation through mindful artistic engagement
Gentle approaches to trauma healing using creative expression
Enhancement of communication abilities and interpersonal skills
Confidence building through creative accomplishment and experimentation
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