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Comprehensive 60-question digital assessment of emotional intelligence and relationship skills
Science-backed tool integrating Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On EQ-i, and attachment theory
Personalized report diagnosing emotional regulation, attachment style, conflict resolution, and communication
Identifies behavioral patterns and emotional blind spots sabotaging relationships
Provides clear indicators for coaching, therapy, or self-improvement interventions
Optional expert 1:1 review session for deep-dive analysis and personalized guidance
Bonus discount on coaching sessions for effective relationship transformation
Designed for singles seeking radical self-awareness and improved emotional connections
Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Skills Scientific Test Diagnostic (EIRSD™) | Science-backed, comprehensive emotional intelligence and relationship skills self-assessment
Unlock the hidden emotional and behavioural patterns that may be sabotaging your love life with the Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Scientific Test Skills Diagnostic (EIRSD™), a signature, scientifically developed self-assessment by Miss Date Doctor. Designed for individuals who experience repeating relationship challenges, difficulty communicating needs, or heightened emotional reactivity, this diagnostic tool uses evidence-based psychological frameworks to provide deep insight into your emotional intelligence (EQ), attachment style, conflict resolution approach, and communication habits.
Grounded in leading theories such as Mayer-Salovey EQ Model, Bar-On’s EQ-i, reflective functioning, and attachment psychology, the EIRSD™ goes beyond a simple personality test to deliver a nuanced, clear picture of your relationship strengths and areas for growth. Whether you struggle with setting boundaries, managing emotional intensity, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this diagnostic facilitates radical self-awareness—a vital first step toward healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
What You’ll Discover:
How effectively you identify, regulate, and manage your emotions
Your dominant attachment style’s impact on trust, vulnerability, and closeness
Your default conflict resolution style: avoidance, escalation, or constructive engagement
Whether you create or sabotage boundaries in relationships
Your levels of empathy and communication proficiency
Emotional “red flags” that may push away healthy partners
Who This Is For:
Individuals feeling misunderstood or reactive in relationships
Those cycling through unhealthy dating patterns or attracting unavailable partners
High-achieving professionals excelling at work but struggling emotionally in love
Anyone committed to deepening emotional self-awareness and fostering genuine connection
Why It Works: The EIRSD™ combines Likert-scale questions, behavioral scenarios, and self-reflection prompts with interpersonal style comparisons—offering a scientifically valid, personalized profile. Unlike generic quizzes, it translates your results into actionable insights that highlight when coaching, therapy, or tailored interventions may benefit your relationship journey.
What You Get:
A 60-question, self-guided digital assessment completed at your own pace
Detailed, personalized scoring breakdown by emotional intelligence and relational skill domains
Downloadable report with comprehensive interpretation and practical guidance
Clear indicators suggesting coaching or therapy paths to enhance your emotional and relational skills
Optional: 1-on-1 review session with an expert Miss Date Doctor coach for deeper exploration of your results
Bonus coaching session discount upon completing the test to kickstart your relationship growth
Professional Guidance: Love thrives on emotional maturity, clear boundaries, and consistent communication. The EIRSD™ reveals where you excel and flags unconscious behaviours that might be blocking intimacy—empowering you to transform your love life from the inside out.
One personalized red flag awareness consultation session
Expert guidance on spotting unhealthy relationship behaviours
Strategies for establishing and enforcing healthy boundaries
Confidential, supportive, and non-judgmental advice
Practical tools to protect emotional wellbeing in dating
Empowerment through early detection of warning signs
Support understanding manipulation and control tactics
Tailored advice to foster safer, more respectful relationships
Three 1-hour coaching sessions focused on anger control and emotional regulation
Customized strategies addressing negative behavior patterns and triggers
Emotional intelligence training to enhance understanding and management of feelings
Practical self-regulation techniques and improvement coaching
Tests and situational guidance tailored to your personal challenges
Supportive, confidential environment fostering lasting personal growth
Tools for improved communication and healthier relationships
Three 1-hour sessions with certified social anxiety professionals
Comprehensive social anxiety testing and personalized coaching
Training in emotional intelligence and self-regulation skills
Exposure hierarchy therapy to face social fears step-by-step
Practical social skills and confidence-building strategies
Objective goal setting and progress monitoring
Structured exercises, homework, and optional dating/relationship support
Confidential, empathetic environment fostering growth and resilience
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced career development specialists
Comprehensive analysis of past employment and work opportunities
Expert guidance to clarify career direction and goals
Support in identifying and addressing career challenges and weaknesses
Personalized decision-making aid for informed progression choices
Creation of a tailored career action plan for sustained growth
Confidential coaching environment fostering empowerment and clarity
One 1-hour class teaching the four essential components of mental fitness
Practical strategies for self-acceptance, self-esteem, resilience, and emotion management
Techniques to build confidence and reduce anxiety
Tools to identify and eliminate cognitive distortions and self-sabotage
Introspection and personality exploration for increased self-awareness
Support addressing challenging behavioral patterns and relationship issues
Evidence-based approach promoting mental health and emotional well-being
Engaging, focused session delivered by experienced mental fitness professionals
Three 1-hour sessions with experienced couples therapists specializing in relationship issues
Improvement of communication skills for deeper emotional understanding
Proven conflict resolution strategies to manage disputes constructively
Trusted guidance to rebuild and strengthen emotional trust in your partnership
Support to increase emotional intimacy and affection between partners
Addressing and resolving past issues impacting present relationship dynamics
Tools to identify and change negative behavioural and communication patterns
Assistance in aligning shared goals for a more unified future as a couple
Three one-hour individual therapy sessions focused on anxiety relief
Expert assessment of anxiety triggers and underlying causes
Personalized coping strategies for managing anxiety symptoms
Techniques to identify and change negative thought patterns
Emotional regulation skills tailored to anxiety management
Exposure therapy support to face fears gradually (if appropriate)
Mindfulness practices to enhance present-moment calm and reduce worry
Goal setting to build resilience and track progress toward wellbeing
Three 1-hour personalized crisis coaching sessions
Initial assessment to understand your crisis and immediate needs
Stabilization strategies to reduce stress and anxiety during tough times
Practical emotional coping techniques for daily challenges
Support to reframe crisis as an opportunity for personal growth
Goal setting for realistic short-term and long-term progress
Daily check-in calls for accountability and ongoing guidance
Compassionate coaching partnership focused on resilience and clarity
Confidential relationship assessment session for individuals or couples
Expert analysis of communication, emotional needs, and compatibility
Personalized feedback highlighting strengths and areas to improve
Actionable next steps to enhance relationship health and satisfaction
Supportive and non-judgemental environment for open discussion
Guidance on effective conflict resolution strategies
Trusted professional advice to foster lasting connection and trust
Clear insights empowering confident relationship decisions
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with experienced intimacy specialists
Practical sensate focus exercises to enhance emotional and physical connection
Communication coaching to foster honest and empathetic dialogue
Mindfulness techniques promoting present-moment intimacy awareness
Support navigating relationship dynamics and intimacy obstacles
Tools for creating a satisfying and connected partnership
Confidential, supportive coaching environment tailored to your unique needs
Three 1-hour individual therapy sessions with qualified therapists
Comprehensive assessment to understand personal challenges and goals
Customized treatment plan using evidence-based therapeutic methods
Skill-building for emotional regulation and stress management
Practical strategies to overcome mental and emotional obstacles
Goal setting and progress review to ensure sustained growth
Safe, confidential, and supportive environment for healing
Designed to empower resilience, wellbeing, and personal transformation
Key Benefits & Features:
Three 1-hour coaching sessions with certified emotional intelligence professionals
Evidence-based techniques to develop self-awareness and emotional regulation
Strategies to build empathy and improve interpersonal understanding
Practical skills for emotion management in personal and professional contexts
Communication enhancement and conflict resolution training
Support for cultivating stronger, more fulfilling relationships
Confidential, supportive coaching environment tailored to your needs
Four weekly 1-hour specialized therapy sessions for NPD (£1,750)
Integrates proven approaches: CBT, DBT, Psychodynamic, and Metacognitive therapies
Focus on recognizing and transforming maladaptive narcissistic patterns
Enhances emotional regulation, empathy, and relational skills
Psychoeducation on NPD symptoms and coping strategies
Supports management of co-occurring issues like anxiety or depression
Confidential and tailored therapy environment for sustainable change
Designed for individuals committed to personal growth and healthier relationships
One confidential pre-marital counselling session for couples
Professional guidance on communication and conflict resolution
In-depth discussions on finances and shared expectations
Exploration of values, goals, and commitment principles
Tools to strengthen emotional intimacy and mutual understanding
Support for couples of all faiths and cultural backgrounds
Strategies to prepare for a resilient, lasting partnership
Expert advice to navigate common pre-marriage challenges
Three 1-hour counselling sessions with experienced therapists specializing in life adjustments
Deep understanding of the emotional effects of major life transitions
Personalized coping techniques to manage stress and anxiety effectively
Confidential, empathetic environment for open emotional exploration
Guidance to build and utilize supportive personal networks
Support balancing change while maintaining life stability
Emphasis on resilience-building and compassionate self-care
Assistance in reframing transitions as opportunities for growth and new experiences
Three personalized 1-hour trauma-informed therapy sessions
Safe, supportive, and confidential environment for healing
Techniques to process and integrate traumatic memories healthily
Emotional regulation tools for managing trauma-related stress
Practical coping strategies to handle triggers and anxiety
Support rebuilding trust, safety, and emotional security
Focus on fostering resilience and post-traumatic personal growth
Experienced therapists specializing in trauma recovery and care
Professional review of extensive conversation records including texts, WhatsApp, emails, and documents
Identification of emotional undertones and communication patterns
Tailored advice to improve what you say and how you engage
Support for enhancing emotional dialogue and interpersonal understanding
Bespoke pricing based on the volume of conversation analysis needed
Confidential and empathetic approach to your personal communications
Three 1-hour individual CBT sessions with experienced therapists
Evidence-based cognitive restructuring and behavioral activation techniques
Support for anxiety, depression, PTSD, aggression, and alcohol misuse
Practical coping skills to manage thoughts, emotions, and insomnia
Help breaking negative cycles and promoting psychological resilience
Confidential, supportive therapy environment focused on lasting change
Personalized treatment tailored to your unique mental health needs
Three 1-hour one-to-one counselling sessions with experienced professionals
Introspection tests and behavioural pattern analysis
CBT-based exercises promoting lasting mindset shifts
Person-centred coaching focused on self-acceptance and personal growth
Identification of repetitive cycles and triggers for informed change
Support addressing past issues and understanding intimacy needs
Safe, confidential space designed to empower and heal
Tailored therapeutic approach for meaningful behavioural transformation
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