Life is not easy. We have so many different things to deal with and we all handle things differently. The one thing I have learnt over the years is that there is a reason behind everything. If you are unhappy, there is a reason. But some issues are may be hard, difficult and sometimes embarrassing to you. If you constantly feel very unhappy or moody, then we need to identify the issue and the reason why it deflates your mood.
If you are in a relationship, or single and hoping to meet someone, either way, being always moody will affect your relationship.If you are an unhappy girl, even if you meet your Mr Perfect, IT WILL NOT WORK because you are always miserable. In this life, there will be good days and bad days. If however you allow other issues eat you up, even meeting the perfect guy will not make you happy.
What I will say to you is that no matter what you are going through, you can always OVERCOME IT!! I do not know your current situation but I will remind you that there are billions of people in the world and we all have problems. Some more are more serious than others but as long as long as you have faith and belief in yourself, you can get through it.
If you have a problem, there are 2 options!! Option 1, you face and fight the problem. Option 2, you let it take over your life. Never ever go for option 2. I can only go to a certain level with this because depending on your problem is how you will handle it. Some situations will be more difficult than others but here are some examples of things that bring people down.
IF YOU FEEL ALONE, YOU WILL GET THROUGH. TRY TO SOCIALISE MORE.
IF YOU FEEL YOU HAVE NOT ACHIEVED ENOUGH, YOU WILL ACHIEVE MORE. TRY TO DO THINGS YOU WANT IN LIFE.
IF MEN HAVE HURT YOU IN THE PAST, YOU WILL GET THROUGH AND MEET A GOOD MAN. REMAIN POSITIVE.
IF YOU DO NOT LIKE YOUR LOOKS OR YOUR BODY, LOVE YOURSELF AND ACCEPT YOU FOR YOU.
IF PEOPLE HAVE LET YOU DOWN OR BETRAYED YOU, REALISE SOME ARE BAD BUT NOT ALL.
IF YOU LOST SOMEONE YOU LOVE, KNOW THAT IN TIME YOUR MEMORY WILL HEAL.
It is so easy to let life take you down because sometimes things do not go well. The pains can be unbearable in certain situations. If you want to be in a relationship or are in one, you MUST NOT TAKE OUT your bad moods on your partner. You should not be constantly down either. Irrespective of what you are going through, reach out to your partner for support. Always remember that there are 2 people in a relationship and learn to consider your partner’s feelings.
Good luck and try to engage in things that make you feel happy. Do not allow anyone or anything to bring you down.
Miss Date Doctor