It can really really hurt when you get messed around by a guy and you just feel so stupid and dump and you think why did I not know? I should never have trusted him. I feel cheap! I feel humiliated but do you know what loads of women have been through very bad situations with men. It can break your spirit, make you feel low and when you keep trying and keep failing, you think I cannot do this anymore. I am tired of being lied to, tricked!! used and misled I just want to be happy and find someone that loves me for who I am!! Don’t worry, you will!! You see, the moment you give up in that very moment, you let all those bad men that let you down win!! If it was one guy that let you down or a few, it does not matter because Mr Right is on his way be is stuck in traffic be patient!!
The problem with getting hurt and disappointed by men is your mind starts to tell you things that are not true to protect you and also feelings of hurt make your mind go into defensive mode Here are some of the things you start to think:
You cannot trust men;
Will I find love? Seems impossible;
They only want one thing;
I cannot risk going through this again it hurts too much; and
I am not one of these girls that gets the good guy no point!
All of these things are untrue and are just a way out of you protecting yourself but you will have to try again. Here are the things you should be thinking:
You can trust some men but not all;
I will find love with the right person;
It is good to get to know a man well before intimacy;
I will just have to be more careful and keep trying until I fund the right one;
My time will come whether or not other people have a good relationship does not matter I will not compare myself to others;
Do not give up on love or on people. You will find it. It might not be today or tomorrow. It could be a few months or years but when it comes, it will be worth it comes it will be worth it and if you feel under pressure or a few HATERS are putting you down for being single or having a fulfilled relationship. Remember that no situation is perfect and everyone has a story. Do not let anyone or anything bring you down. Do not even give time to those that try to hurt or pull you down. Now here are the things you are going to do:
TAKE TIME TO KNOW MEN BEFORE STARTING A RELATIONSHIP.
LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF.
TRY TO IMPROVE YOURSELF IN OTHER AREAS (education, work, career, appearance)
NOT ALL MEN ARE BAD AND NEVER EVER LET ONE LOSER MAKE YOU FEEL THAT WAY.
Good luck and your pain will heal don’t worry.
Miss Date Doctor